Singlarity: Question of the Week

16 Feb

I have a question I’d like answered. Say you’re a man who is getting divorced and you have several small children. You’re still in love with your soon-to-be ex-wife but she’s done with you. Is it really fair for you to put yourself out there on the market before you’ve even gone to court to decide child custody and to use another woman to help you get over your ex-wife and rebuild your self-esteem, especially when that other woman probably won’t be the one to become stepmother of your children? Then again, you have to start somewhere, right?

The situation just seems incredibly unfair.

I wouldn’t mind hearing from the Strong Jaw of Justice on this one, just to get a manly-man’s opinion.

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One Response to “Singlarity: Question of the Week”

  1. swampmusic February 16, 2009 at 11:56 pm #

    No, it ain’t fair to us, but also, they DO have to start somewhere. Dad went out searching like that after Mom died, he didn’t really realize he was doing it, he was just lonely and wanted a replacement real quick, you know? Then he realized rushing it wasn’t the way to do it and just when he’d given up he met C.

    It’s a lose/lose situation, really. It’s not fair to you, but it’s also not fair to them for them to be judged because where else do they start? I do think they should wait for the divorce to be final, however. But..yeah that’s how I see it.

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